Men and women are seeking a compatible person(s). We all have different wants, desires, and unique personalities. The only way to see if the person is right for us is to meet, ask questions, then ask more questions. Usually, people are seeking to see if the person has the same or similar priorities in life.

Ten reasons men/women seek a date.
- Someone to do things with. Go to sporting events together, go to the fair, go to the movies, etc. Most people do not like doing things alone.
- Some people want to meet for sex. Some call it a “hookup.”
- Some people are seeking a long-term marriage relationship.
- Some married people are seeking to have an affair
- Couples date other people. Alternative dating. Couples may seek a 3rd.
- Men often date women for appearances—parties, business, etc.
- Women date certain men for fun, pleasure, and gifts.
- Men date certain women just for good conversation.
- Many people seek dates because they are lonely.
- Millions of men seek specific dates to satisfy sexual fetishes.
Some people believe they can have more fun if they are with another person.
Many people date to do things with – and these people seldom have thoughts of long-term relationships or marriage – at least not right now.